Im going to use three common conversational themes as examples: travel, music, and movies. Travel: Talk about going someplace warm for a vacation. With a smile, ask her if she can recommend a warm place that you two can explore together. Music: Talk about favorite bands and songs. Mention that some songs you can keep playing over and over again and enjoy them just as much each time. You can relate favorite songs to doing something you like over and over again until you (finally) need to take a break. Movies: Talk about what makes a good movie; a nice build up, some anticipation, some tension, friction...between characters, climax, and slow release (winding down of plot). The above are basic conversational skeletons, which can be easily applied to insert sexual innuendoes and patterns into the conversation. With practice this skill will become second nature to you and you wont need to rely on canned material so much. But to get you started it is good practice to sit down and make up your own patterning, based on themes off the top of your head. For example, you may use the themes: cars, clothes/fashion, sports, and cooking. Use your imagination. Be creative and take your time to come up with some good lines, which can then be used alongside the conversational topics of your choice, on the date. This is guaranteed to get a womans imagination going in a sexual direction a good thing for you! Copyright 2006 Vittorio Norman |